Life has a way of presenting us with seasons—some filled with joy, others marked by loss. The act of closing a chapter in our lives, whether it’s the end of a relationship, a career, or grieving a loved one, is one of the hardest things we experience. Yet, as I’ve been reflecting on the themes of letting go and loss (inspired by my December podcast episodes), I’ve come to realize that closing a chapter isn’t just an end—it’s also a beginning.
One book that has deeply resonated with me during this time is When You Are Ready, This Is How You Heal by Brianna West. It’s been a validating and eye-opening companion, reminding me that there’s a gain to be found in every loss, even if it’s not immediately apparent.
Finding the Gain Amid the Loss
One of the most profound insights from the book is this: in order to move forward after a loss, we must shift our focus to what lies ahead. Often, loss feels all-encompassing, blinding us to the opportunities and joys that still exist. But when we allow ourselves to look forward, to imagine the gains we’ve yet to uncover, the healing begins.
The author writes about how immersing yourself in things that bring you joy can ease the pain of loss over time. As the days pass, the sharpness of grief softens, and we find ourselves slowly embracing the present and the future. This truth has been transformative for me.
Letting Go and Embracing Rebirth
As I navigate my own phase of letting go, I’ve come to understand that loss is not just about endings—it’s about rebirth. There’s a transformation happening, even if I can’t fully see it yet.
For me, that rebirth has come through writing and narrating The Ordinary Bruja. What started as a fun, lighthearted short story has become so much more. The act of rewriting and immersing myself in this creative process has brought me immense joy and validation. It’s reminded me of my love for storytelling and given me something to look forward to every day.
This shift in focus—from pain to passion—has been a lifeline. It hasn’t erased the loss, but it’s created space for something new to grow.
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Your Chapter is Waiting
If you’re going through a season of loss, I want to remind you that it’s okay to close the chapter. It doesn’t mean forgetting or dismissing what you’ve lost—it means making room for what’s next.
Find something that brings you joy, no matter how small. Immerse yourself in it. Whether it’s writing, painting, gardening, or simply spending time with loved ones, allow yourself to shift your focus. As you do, you’ll start to notice the rebirth taking shape—the gains that were always waiting for you on the other side of loss.
A Final Thought
Healing is not linear, and it’s not something we can rush. But it’s also not a passive process. It requires us to take small, deliberate steps toward the life we want to create. Closing a chapter is one of those steps.
This week, I encourage you to reflect on the chapters you’re ready to close and the new ones you’re ready to begin. Trust that the act of letting go will create space for something beautiful to grow.
What chapter are you ready to close? Share your reflections in the comments or connect with me on social media. Let’s embrace the rebirth together.
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